An
eight hour ride on Greyhound Bus took us on a scenic journey through
wilderness and lake-filled Michigan, from industrial Detroit to
Great Lakes hub Traverse City. Though still pretty
small, Traverse is the biggest city in the area, and the last
stop for Wal-Mart, Target, Kmart, Sam's Club, Starbucks or any
other chain store or mall before you drive into small town USA.
Driving between towns, we pass by old miniature golf courses,
a drive-in movie theater, and several pick-your-own blueberry
fields. Our small town destination was Frankfort,
which we immediately fell in love with. The business district
of Frankfort, and for that matter most of the towns in this area,
consists of one main street offering mom-and-pop shops, a few
cafes, a motel or B&B, hardware store, bakery, pharmacy, post
office, fudge shop, ice cream stand, and a one theater cinema.
The clapboard homes on the tree lined streets in town all have
porches, rocking chairs, lawns and American flags, and the surrounding
homes are spread widely for miles through the forest and around
the lakes. At the end of town, Lake Michigan
is so huge that it looks like an ocean, and its beaches are just
as beautiful.
Many
families have been spending their summers in Frankfort for generations,
and the Kirkwood family is no exception. Ginny and Charlie Kirkwood
have created a warm home in the forest for their 5 married children
and 8 grandchildren (so far) to share each summer. We were invited
by one of their sons and daughter-in-law, Tim and Julie, who were
personal training clients of Brad's in Tokyo, and over the month
most of the main and extended family enjoyed some training with
Brad, as a makeshift basement gym was created and Frankfort served
as an outdoor haven for running, hiking, bicycling, swimming and
tennis. The family's ten bedroom home and three bedroom 'court
house' (guest house next to the tennis courts) filled up over
the month with siblings, spouses, children, grandchildren, cousins,
aunts, nephews, in-laws, family friends and more, and we quickly
fell in love with the children and became fast friends with this
loving clan, all the way up to 94-year-old great-grandma Ruth.
The
Kirkwoods were wonderful and the summer was awesome, with perfect
weather and long days, with the sun setting around 9:45 pm. At
the local community center, we accompanied the kids to sports
lessons and activities, played at the beach at Crystal
Lake, and attended the children's operetta show. We surely
got a bit of practice for having children someday and Bex even
made some extra money babysitting for a few local families. At
the homestead we lounged on the deck, hit the tennis courts almost
daily, often sat down to dinner for 30 people, played board games,
picnicked on the lawn and celebrated a second
birthday. 'Old Baldy' was another favorite activity, the giant
sand dunes behind the house, which we climbed up and slid down
to Lake Michigan's secluded stretches of beach, then a couple
nights we drove to Point Betsie Lighthouse to sing and toast marshmallows
for smores around a beach bonfire as the sun went down. Around
town we got to know many families and ran into them at the street
sale, an art fair, a blueberry festival and at the Rotary Club's
chicken BBQ in the park. Then just short drives away, we could
spend an afternoon at Crystal Mountain Ski Resort waterpark or
in Glen Arbor browsing tiny art galleries and
sampling cherry treats, salsas, wines and more products of the
cherry capital of the world, Northern Michigan. To finish off
the summer, Brad joined Tim and three family friends to run in
the annual team marathon around Crystal Lake and their team placed
third for their age group. On top of all this, we also had two
nights of a 'romantic getaway' at the cabin resort of Chimney
Corners and joined their BBQ where we met even more welcoming
families whose roots go very deep in Frankfort.
We
now, too, have a connection to Northwest Michigan and have had
more than a glimpse into this wonderful place where families and
friends can enjoy the simple things in life together. It was great
for us to have a break from traveling for awhile, spend a month
in one place, make some extra money while spending very little,
and get to know some very special people.
Traveler
Tips:
**From Detroit Metropolitan Wayne County Airport, SMART city buses
go to Downtown Detroit and pass near the Greyhound Bus Terminal.
Bus fare is $1.50 exact change. A taxi runs about $30.
**Greyhound
Bus is a cheap and comfortable way to get around the USA. Thousands
of routes are available to all corners of the country and tickets
purchased in advance online are heavily discounted. See www.greyhound.com.