Turning
Japanese...We Really Think So!

Ohayo!!
Konnichi wa from Hanno city, Saitama prefecture on the island of Honshu
in JAPAN!
I've waited so long to write, and there was just so much to say! So as
per usual with Bex's emails, this one is HUGE!
Winter
here in Japan officially started 5 days ago, and everyone is
wrapped in scarfs, hats, and jackets! It’s actually not as cold
as I expected (thanks to Global Warming) The days are clear and sunny,
which makes the 15 Celsius (low 50’s Fahrenheit) quite nice, and
the night lows are around 5 Celsius (40 F), but will drop to as low as
0 C, which feels arctic to an Arizona/Sydney girl like me. The chilling
wind is the killer outside, but inside we've got a heating unit, a kerosene
heater, and lots of blankets!
The weather
is actually the easiest thing to get used to in Japan. Although London,
India, Nepal, Thailand, and Australia all quickly felt like home to me,
it’s taking me much longer to get adjusted to Japan. First off,
the language barrier is huge, which is the challenge
that we wanted, but much tougher to deal with than expected. We are virtually
illiterate, as few signs are in English, and every day tasks or errands
take twice as long when you can’t speak to anyone! We have to rely
on our Japanese friends to help us do so many things, and it really puts
your sense of independence in check. More importantly than the language
barrier, however, is the cultural barrier in Japan. The
Japanese generally do not bother with small talk or random conversation
with strangers or acquaintances. At first, you feel like they are being
rude or closed off. But then you realize that they just don’t feel
the need to make polite pleasantries with people you don’t really
know! We never realized how much we chat to strangers in the U.S. and
OZ...we even talk to store clerks and cashiers about how they feel and
how their day is going! And often we ask ‘How are you?' without
listening or caring about the answer. This random and sometimes superficial
conversation is unheard of in Japan, and because of what I'm used to,
sometimes it makes you feel isolated. But when you do make a Japanese
friend, you go out for beers and talk and REALLY get to know
each other, and they are very open in this context. And when you do make
a Japanese friend, they are die-hard, true-blue, committed and caring
friends! Even the middle-aged ladies that teach us volunteer Japanese
lessons are always calling and coming by to give us useful information
or to bring us treats or local fruits. We have plenty of offers from Japanese
people who want to help us adjust and take us out for fun times. The Japanese
people are very genuine and selfless, and it’s surely worth overcoming
my initial culture shock to get to know them and their country.
Brad
is here with me now, and we are having a great time learning
to live in Japan together. He is a diligent Japanese studier, and can
already read and write one of their 3 alphabets! He's my hero! We are
still getting settled really, and hopefully he will also start working
soon. He already has one class of middle-aged ladies he will teach English
to once a month, and will continue to look for personal training and English
lesson clients to work with in Tokyo and here in Hanno. We now both have
bikes, we belong to the community center gym (where we work out each time
for under a buck), and we both now have mobile (cell) phones which connect
to the internet, email, take pictures, and are a true marvel of the digital
age! We'll hopefully have a home phone and internet in a few weeks, so
I can talk to you guys soon!
Our Japanese
is already getting better, but it’s slow going, especially because
I spend 30 hours a week as an English teacher! Anyhow, my job is great.
At Kidz Talk I have 130 students that come in small groups
(8 max.) once a week. Every day I have 4-5 classes of different students
from ages 5-15, so I'm STILL trying to remember all their names! My school
is tiny and personal, with just me and Naomi (the young Japanese manager
whose father owns the school) teaching, and a sweet woman named Osawa-San
who does reception, paperwork, cleaning, AND brings us sweets and treats
nearly every day! I have my own key to the school, my own classroom, and
the opportunity to teach how I like to. I find the Kidz Talk method, which
uses lots of games, very effective and fun. Half the time, the kids and
I forget that we are teaching and learning because we are just enjoying
ourselves so much! The weeks fly by, and I can quickly see the results
of my teachings. After 4 weeks (4 lessons for each student) spent on one
unit/theme, I can really see the students learning!! It’s a great
feeling. My hours are 3-9 PM, so I have all day to read, write, hang out,
explore, relax, and can also go out at night for a beer!
Contrary
to popular belief, Japan has not been expensive for us. Mostly due to
the recession Japan’s had these past few years, food, clothes, and
shoes are very inexpensive, even compared to America and Australia! However,
Hanno is MUCH cheaper than Tokyo, which continues to have a pretty high
cost of living. Train rides are rather expensive, and some foreign items
are pricey, but our day to day living is very affordable.
At the grocery
store, we buy plenty of the same foods here as in the
U.S./OZ (except beef, which is VERY expensive), We eat lots of fish and
soba (buckwheat) noodles, but we usually eat Japanese food at restaurants,
not at home. Italian, Chinese, and French foods are all the rage here,
though they are very different from the equivalent in America and Australia.
Anko, or sweet red soybeans, are in everything, and are absolutely delicious,
but Japanese sour apricots and raw horse meat are two things we’re
not too fond of (the horse is not a common dish here, thank god). Persimmons
are in season, spotting the trees a beautiful orange color, and tasting
delicious at home. Green tea is plentiful and free in restaurants, but
coffee is also VERY popular with the Japanese. I could go on about food
and stuff for ages, but more on food later...
Our social
life has been great. We have met a handful of young foreign teachers living
in our area, we go out with Naomi and her husband often, and we've made
foreign and Japanese friends in Tokyo as well.......
We
play tennis with Naomi and her father at courts in the
greenest, most beautiful countryside. Private Japanese calligraphy lessons
are at the beautiful home of a creative, inspiring Japanese woman. Karaoke
is a Japanese highlight, as you have your own private room, complete with
2 microphones, tons of English songs, and a phone to order your beers
and food. We've also seen a local British rock band, and a couple crazy
Japanese rock bands play around town. Japanese pubs and
restaurants are the most fun, with pillows and low tables on tatami mats,
amazing food spread over a dozen plates for all to share, huge beers in
frosty mugs, warm sake in wooden boxes, and shochu liquor drinks mixed
with fresh fruit.
In the metropolis
of Tokyo (50 minutes from us by train), the weekend markets are
fun to stroll, and the city is a mass of neon and excitement. Big weekend
nights out are usually 6 to 10 people drinking around hot plates and tables
full of food, and we also went to a Halloween party at a fancy apartment
with some rich Aussies and Americans! The trains stop early though (about
midnight), so I've been stuck in Tokyo more than once! A few nights I
slept on futon at my friend Mayuko’s house, but one night, Brad
and I slept on the wet concrete in the freezing night! We went from cafe
to cafe until they had closed and kicked us out, and we didn't have enough
money to go to the places that are open 24 hours, so we were homeless
people for 4 hours until the trains started up again at 5 am!
In Hanno,
Halloween was fantastic! We decorated the school like
a haunted house, and had Halloween games and festivities ALL WEEK!! I
wore my Halloween costume (Pocahontas) every day, and Brad got to wear
the Scream mask and scare the kids every night in the haunted house. The
kids all dressed up and looked SO cute! Naomi and Tsukasa (her husband)
took me out for a huge dinner on my 26th birthday and made me feel right
at home.
Lastly, the
best way we’ve truly experienced TRADITIONAL Japanese culture has
been at several festivals. There are dozens of ornate
wooden floats, arrays of exotic cuisines at hundreds of food stalls, enchanting
music and dancers, and thousands of festival-goers. One festival was at
the local university, and the last celebration was our very own town festival,
Hanno Matsuri, where we were invited to chant and dance with the locals
in the midst of it all!
I'll write
more often now, so that these travelogues are not so huge, and I can still
give you all the fantastic details. If you're still reading...wow!! Send
me a reply and let me know about the beauty in YOUR life! Life is getting
better every day...
Love and light
xoxoxoxoxoxo REBECCA
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